A Positive Attitude

September 29, 2017
The last couple of days seemed to have bleed into one long one. Bobbi’s 2nd chemo treatment was on Wednesday. We were hoping the side-effects wouldn’t be as severe but unfortunately not. Thursday wasn’t too bad. She got up early and drove over to mom’s apartment for coffee. Each of us probably slept a total of 60 minutes last night. Pain, nausea, muscle aches. This morning I went to the grocery store about 5am, while it was slow. Stocked up on fruits, liquids. Fever running a little high but within range they said to expect. Lori met us in Petoskey so that was very nice. The two made the best of the situation and I tried to give them their space. The area was in a dayroom type setting. Loud and lots of things taking place all over. Lori brought some great pumpkin muffins and that really made her day! All of us went out and had coffee after she checked in and between the time where her chemo was being prepared. Also stopped by an art gallery to deliver a picture Lori painted of Bobbi appropriately titled “Braveheart”. (Click here to see 2nd round of chemo with Lori) The chemo is mixed going by her latest lab work the day before, body weight, and side-effects from last week. An extra nausea medicine was given through her port.

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Had a nice weekend too. Sunday afternoon was nice. We drove over to Mikes house and had cheeseburgers while watching the Lions play on TV. He showed how his hunting cabin is coming along, a short trip from his home. It’s amazing how much work he finished on it since seeing it in July. He is really a good guy. All of her siblings are for that matter. All have called and inquired about how she’s doing. Bobbi’s attitude has been fantastic! She posted a message on Facybook letting friends know what was taking place. Someone had written her a message saying they heard she had brain or bone cancer so she wanted to nip the rumors in the rump right away. Her good friend Jamie is putting an event together, probably in the start of December so it’ll be nice for her to connect again with friends. And seeing family again will really pick up both our spirits. Know it’s difficult having so many miles apart so make short videos when we can. She sure is inspiring. She credits me for showing her how to deal with a health challenge but I can’t take any credit for that! I’d be a mess dealing with what she’s dealing with! She is truly blazing her own trail on this one. How she manages to get through things with a song and dance has me shaking my head in awe. Was a nice relaxing weekend. Not so good at the present moment but we’ll get through it. Love her so much and so glad our paths crossed 25 some years ago! Have added a lot of photography from over the years to these writings and her smile is as beautiful as the day we met. We are now a third away from finding out if the tumor has shrunk, and then the surgery probably in December. Hard not to worry about that. Trying to take things one day at a time. Had some Facytime with Cinneidi and she played the guitar for us, which was really nice!

She did get a chance to relay the experience she had at the War Memorial Hospital last week with the one nurse who said her teeth would fall out. The hospital called and inquired on how the experience went and she shared good except in regards to that ordeal. Didn’t want to mention any names, she’s not like that, but did relay the information. People each step of the way have been very nice. Her support team is strong and she IS going to beat this! Parting words for readers are to keep the faith and prayers coming, and a gigantic thank you,

9 thoughts on “A Positive Attitude

  1. Mike, thank you for your honest and loving blog about a most special lady. With your love and support, and the love and prayers of all the people who love this brave, crazy, kickass lady, I have little doubt that the Big C is going to stick around.

    Has Bobbi ever told you the story of our roots? I believe we became an unlikely force in 1969 and my life was never the same afterward. 😂❤️😂. And my life was all the better for knowing and loving Bobbi….an unbridled force of nature who always brought joy to anyone around her.

    Much love and continued prayers for you both.

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